I was cautious when things started getting serious with any guy. I was with one guy who I knew had been with several other women in the past. I asked him if he would get tested before anything happened. He said “sure.” And then changed his answer a few days later to “Oh, I did that before we met.” When I pressed him about seeing documentation from the clinic he said “they don’t give you anything, they just said I was fine and I could leave.” The whole thing sounded sketchy to me–why wouldn’t the clinic give him a piece of paper? Why would he go from saying he would do it to saying he already had? Needless to say the whole thing felt off and we never slept together.