We were going to get dinner and he was driving my car. He parked on the street and the street sign said “no parking 7:30am-6:30pm.” It was 6pm. I said “we can’t park here.” He said that they are not going to check in 30 minutes and we would be fine. Being that it was MY car, I did not feel comfortable with this, and continued to insist that he find another parking spot. He was getting visibly annoyed with me, so finally I said “If I get a parking ticket, then you are going to pay for it.” He just said “yeah, yeah but you’re not going to get one.”
After dinner, *surprise* a parking ticket is waiting for me! He takes it and says he’s going to pay for it. Parking tickets double in fine if it is not paid within 30 days. Knowing all of this, and knowing that the ticket was for a car registered to me, I would ask every couple days if he paid it. He kept dismissing it saying it was “at his desk at work” and he was “waiting till he got paid.” After a couple of weeks he started to get annoyed with me saying that I was being naggy and annoying and that he would get around to it.
This was not the deciding factor, but it did play a role in my decision to end things with him. I can’t be with someone who would be so disrespectful. A couple days after I officially ended it, I received this in the mail:
Which I was upset about, but so happy that it confirmed any suspicion I had of him being a complete douchebag. Thanks.