I got really busy at work so I was having less time to hang out with my boyfriend. He went to dinner one-on-one with this woman I had never met a few times. I knew that they were kind of friends, but I’m not sure how well they knew each other. I didn’t say anything, ever.
I am not a jealous person, I hate it when my friends are weirdly jealous of their significant others and I strive not to be like that. He continued to go out with this woman and I continued to not say anything, even though I thought it was weird, and in hindsight kind of inappropriate. One night, we were texting and I said something along the lines of “oh, you guys are going out again tonight?” And he responded with “don’t be jealous, she’s my dinner buddy.” WHOA RED FLAG. I definitely should have seen it right then, but of course I didn’t and it blew up in my face.